Friday, 25 November 2011

It's amazing how quickly rumours are spread and changed...

I'm not going to go into detail about the exact matter that is bothering me as this isn't the place to vent it, but I shall give you all a brief picture. And if you all think why? My blog is somewhere for me to vent my thoughts, hopes, dream and fears. It is also a place to vent my anger, frustration, confusion and generally things that bother me. Don't like that? Don't read this. My blog isn't for the benefit of readers and followers, it's for me to vent, to somewhat avoid bottling things up to the point where I explode.

Basically, a friend told someone a few porkies, well not really porkies, sort of her view on things, how she saw something. And now I have to explain to an old friend that nothing is going on with me and her boyfriend. Kinda got to me, not the being accused, the whole lies and things being thrown about. It got me thinking. So my friend told this girl that I talk to her boyfriend a lot. Here's where it all starts. I haven't spoke to this lad in about 3 months, probably longer. Oh yeah, he asked me how I was doing yesterday in a like 10 min conversation. That's it.

I just find it amazing how quickly rumours are spread and changed, also how a friends opinion can be turned into a fact within minutes. Not only has this friend caused a big fuss over nothing at all and got me into poop, she's more than likely ruined a 2 year relationship by putting insecurities into this girls head, however, it also makes you think how much trust does this girl have if she believes someone she hasn't seen or talked to in a good year, over her boyfriend of 2 years. But again, you don't know what goes on behind closed doors.  My point is, you need to realise when to keep your gob shut and not fob off your opinion as a fact to someone. Oh and when you do, be prepared to have questions asked and to back up what you said, don't sit and say you're not getting involved when the whole situation is down to you.

I don't take to kindly to having lies told about me. Be prepared for the consequences. Simple.
Life is full of struggles, fall outs and drama but these can be reduced if people just tell the truth and be honest.


Anyway, on a lighter note, well kinda, I have a very, very sore throat, but my boyfriend is on his way for snuggles and a giggle, oh and possibly a rant. Got to love him, he's my rock, my best friend, not just my boyfriend. I'll go before you all ask me to pass the bucket. So yeah, toodles!

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